Exercise

The Myth of “Toning”

When asking people (especially women) about their goals with weight loss and fitness they normally respond with, “Well, I’d like to tone up.” Like “clean eating,” the term is ambiguous. Google it, you’ll get THOUSANDS of articles. “Want to lose cellulite? Tone!” or “Tone up those problem areas!” Dictionary.com has a definition after a long list of ones involving sound that basically says “strengthen ill-used muscles.”

Lots of weird words for a very simple concept.

First of all, “toning” implies that you can spot reduce. They give you specific exercises for specific areas of the body, like your inner thigh, muffin top, etc. They have you powering out multiple exercises targeting one or two muscles in hope that you “replace that fat with muscle!”

It doesn’t work that way. Fat and muscle are two completely different things. Fat is our storage form of energy, muscle is what we use to move (along with tendons, ligaments, etc). They are two completely different things and one does not simply *become* the other. When you do strength training exercises you are increasing the diameter – not the length – of the muscle. Increasing your heart rate, eating below your maintenance calories, etc. will cause fat loss – but in no particular area.

Let me repeat that – fat loss does not happen in one area because you “worked” that area out. It is 100% determined by genetics as to where you gain or lose weight first/last.

That’s the myth of toning – the idea that crunches will give you a 6 pack, that the adductor machine will give you a thigh gap, or that running will only burn leg fat. You lose fat based on genetics, you gain muscle

A case for the Barbie weights

Lots of forceful, albeit well meaning, Tumblrs often lament how impractical it is to use “Barbie Weights.” The idea of lifting something lighter than your purse is silly to a lot of them, so they will brush off the entirety of these weights. These weights are usually a pastel color (or any color other than black and iron, like the “mens weight”) and aren’t generally located anywhere near the “mens lifting section.” Because of this they can offer security for female lifters new to lifting, as well as an easy way to increase your weights.

So, I will make a case for the “Barbie Weights”, because they do have their place.

Now, I am in no means defending people who pick up a 5 pound dumbbell and curl it for 40-50 reps with their right hand while picking their lunch out of their teeth with their left hand. I’m referring to the women who are just beginning their journey and find that 5 pounds, or even 2 pounds, can be a struggle.

First, let’s refer to the location of these weights. They’re often nowhere near the typically male dominated area of the gym with the benches, squat racks and other barbell accessories. This is important because this area is extremely overwhelming to anyone – male or female – new to the gym. Having a safe haven where they can lift lighter weights without feeling intimidated is important for growth. Gaining confidence while using these lighter weights will translate to confidence when they grow into higher weights and relocate to the traditional weight lifting area.

Second, let’s look at the general progression of weight in the Iron Garden. You typically have 5 lbs, 10 lbs, 15 lbs, 20 lbs, etc. The progression adds 5 pounds to every weight. Imagine you’re lifting 5 pound weights and have found you can now do 20 reps with ease, so it’s time to move up to 10 lbs.

The jump from 5 to 10 lbs is a 100% increase in weight. If any other person were to attempt the same jump they’d be seen as insane. Sick of lifting 20’s? Let’s pick up a 40! The progression of weights by 5 pounds does not make sense to many new lifters – male or female. Having the “Barbie Weights” that increase by 1-2.5 pounds per weight is extremely beneficial in advancing strength without compromising form or risking injury.

Lighter weights have their place in starting lifting routines, as well as lifters looking to progress. The gentle increase in weight can allow gains in strength without sacrificing form and they lower the risk of injury when “normal iron” has only 5 pound progressions.

Getting over your fear of the weight room

It doesn’t matter who you are, the first trip to the weight room can be scary. Here are some simple tips and tricks to help you slowly acclimate to the weight room.

1. Scope it out

If you’re new to the gym ask for a tour. Make sure you tell the tour guide that you’re interested in incorporating free weights into your exercises, so to focus on showing you where they’re located. If you’re not new to the gym, scope out the weight section from where you’re most comfortable. For some people this means picking a cardio machine near the weight section and people watching. See where the weights are, how people use them, etc.

2. Bring a friend

If you have a friend that knows their way around the weight room, bring them with. Ask them to show you some basic stuff. If your friend doesn’t know anything about weights, just ask them to wander through the section with you.

3. Ask a trainer

Most gyms give you one free workout with a trainer when you join. Ask if your gym offers this and tell them you’d like to see the weight section. Ask them to show you basic moves for arms, legs, abs, etc. Even if your gym doesn’t offer free training sessions, make sure to ask anyway. Tell them you don’t want to become injured and would like to see how the move is done.

4. Come with a plan

If you’re new to weight lifting start small – one or two exercises at the most. While feeling sore is an amazing feeling, being unable to move at all is not. Start small. If you’re not sure what to do, there are some great resources

BodyBuilding.com – Despite the name, this is not just for body builders, but for anyone looking to get into shape. They offer plans such as Jamie Eason’s LiveFit program, which is very popular amongst Fitblrs, and a database showing you how to do each exercise.

CutAndJacked.com – They interview competitors (figure, body building, bikini, etc.) and ask for their basic plans. Most break it down by body part, others alternate between upper and lower body exercises.

Write these exercises down in a notebook or on your phone or iPod so that you can refer to them later. Sometimes nerves can make you forget.

5. Practice the moves at home

As silly as it may seem, practicing the exercises at home without weights can make a huge difference. If the first time you’re doing an exercise is at the gym with weights you may rush through it. Knowing exactly how the move feels will help build confidence and ensure you’re doing the move right.

6. Headphones!

Headphones are the universal sign for “don’t talk to me.” They’re also a great distraction from the rest of the people in the gym. If you have an amazing playlist of all your favorite songs it’s easier to get in the zone and focus just on yourself and the music. Make a playlist beforehand and have it ready.

7. Find times when the gym is empty

Ask a trainer or someone at the desk when there are less people at the gym. This usually means less people in the weight room. It’s a lot easier to navigate when there are less people, and you have less of a chance of being unable to do a certain exercise because there are people using your weights. Plus, the less people there are the less intimidating it is. Knowing your gyms empty hours can translate into a great workout with less stress.

8. Find a class that focuses on free weights

These classes have names like “Body Pump” or “Weighted Blast.” Read the descriptions of these classes and see which ones incorporate free weights and general strength training into them. You can use these moves on your free time, learn form, and do so in a great group environment that is generally less intimidating than the free weight section.

9. Identify your fear

If you’re afraid that people are going to judge you, some of these tips may not help. Why? Because you’re prioritizing what someone else may or may not be thinking over your health and happiness. You have to reach a certain point where you accept that you’re afraid of being judged, then acknowledge that it’s a silly fear. Once you do this you put your health and happiness first.

Other fears involve snide comments, staring, etc. Having a plan and a great playlist can really help with this. If you focus only on yourself, your music, your movement, etc. it’s easier to ignore those around you. If you do not make eye contact with people they often will not talk to you. Even if people do comment on what you’re doing, it’s just as easy to tell them to mind their own business as anything else. Don’t let ignorant people ruin your quest for a healthier, happier self.

Once you identify what you’re afraid of you can make steps towards remedying this fear.

Weight Loss 101: Everything you ever needed to know about losing weight

Since we all get this question a lot, I thought I’d create the long, arduous, all-inclusive guide to weight loss, starting at the very beginning.

Weight loss = calories in vs calories out. To lose weight you must create a calorie deficit. How do you do this?

1. BMR – Basal Metabolic Rate

Your BMR (or basal metabolic rate) is the amount of calories it takes for your body to run if you were in a coma. It’s the basic amount of calories your body requires to breathe, process life, etc. How do you find our your BMR? There are some online calculators, but most of them suck because they don’t take into account body fat %. For every pound of lean body fat you have you burn more calories than for every pound of fat you have. Click here for my favorite BMR calculator. This calculator also shows you how many calories to eat to lose weight based on the average of three separate BMR calculations. It also helps determine how much fat/protein/etc. you need. Tip: Use one activity level below what you think you actually are.

Why can’t I just eat my BMR?

If you don’t exercise and live a very sedentary lifestyle you always could just eat at your BMR. But if you’re an active person who exercises a lot, or just is always on the go, eating at your BMR is likely not going to give you enough energy to get through your day. Best bet is to use the calculator above and go from there.

What about BMI?

BMI is not a reliable indicator of health or weight. All it takes into consideration is height, weight, gender and age. Someone who is 5’4 and 145 pounds of muscle has the same BMI as someone who is 5’4 and weighs 145 pounds of mostly fat. Ignore it.

2. Counting Calories

Counting calories is not necessary for weight loss. Some people simply watch their portions, sugar, macros, etc. Some people just do what they want and lose weight or maintain. Good for them! They’re probably not reading this article because this is weight loss 101 for people who have trouble with this. Here are some great sites to help you count calories…

My Fitness Pal

Spark People

Calorie King

LoseIt

A lot of these also have apps for Android and iPhone.

Measure/weigh your food

A lot of people UNDERESTIMATE the amount of food they eat. For this reason I suggest not eyeballing your portion sizes until you understand what 100 calories of oatmeal looks like.

Gaining pounds

Give this process time. Say you start tracking your calories and you see that after a week you’ve gained a pound. Well, first of all, the scale is kind of a big lying loser. Second of all, the scale weighs everything. It weighs the water you drank, undigested food, that you’re wearing a padded bra today, etc. However, the scale can be helpful in tracking if your calorie count is optimal. If you’re gaining weight you may need to lower your calories, measure your food more precisely, or start exercising. Also, eating a high carb meal causes water retention. There are a lot of factors around why you may not be losing weight. If it is continually a problem, see a doctor, not Tumblr.

3,500 = one pound

Eating 3,500 calories in one day will not make you gain a pound. Eating 3,500 calories OVER your maintenance calories in one day will make you gain a pound. This means if your maintenance is 2,000 calories you’d need to eat 5,500 calories in one day to gain a pound.

Diet is the #1 reason behind weight gain/weight loss. 

Eating “clean” to lose weight

Like I said, calories are all that matters when it comes to losing weight. When people tell you the reason you’re not losing weight is because you’re not “eating clean” they’ve been brainwashed by the new face of the diet industry. Fact of the matter is that you can gain weight eating “clean” and you can lose weight by eating “dirty.” What you should focus on is how food makes you feel. Don’t eat food that makes you feel bloated, sick, run down, tired, etc. Eat food that makes you feel satisfied but not sick, energetic, efficient and happy. These foods mean different things for different people. Find what works for you and don’t let anyone talk you out of it.

Myths

You don’t need to eat every 3-4 hours, that’s a myth

“Starvation mode” doesn’t exist like we think it does

You don’t need to eat breakfast if you’re not hungry, and skipping meals doesn’t make your metabolism crash

If you eat into a deficit your body will burn fat, not muscle

Don’t restrict types of food for the sake of weight loss, you’ll eat them anyway

3. Exercise

Exercise is not necessary for weight loss, or fat loss. Exercise is necessary for muscle gain and getting away from the “skinny fat” a lot of people worry about. Exercise will help build muscle mass, which increases your BMR. Also, since muscle is more dense than fat, you can weigh more but look skinnier. Muscle is pretty bad ass.

Exercising Away the Calories

This is a slippery slope as most people tend to OVERESTIMATE the amount of calories they burn from exercise. Doing so can set back a lot of progress. On the other hand, people who run 12 miles every morning should eat more to make up for their long run. Find a good balance. Is it the afternoon after a long run and you’re ravenous but almost up on calories? You need to make up for the energy expended. Running one or two miles every day is not sufficient to eat 500 calories back. Likewise, if you just PRed your squat, deadlift and bench press today you may need to eat a bit more than usual. 1 hour pilates class? Probably not so much. You know your body best – if it’s tired, feed it.

Type of Exercise

The type of exercise you do should make you happy. That is all. Forcing yourself to lift/run/cycle/zumba/etc. when you hate it will make you resent exercise. For basic weight loss you can do pretty much anything that gets you moving and invigorated and be just fine.

I want to lose weight here…

You can’t spot reduce, but you can spot train. Increasing your heart rate = all over fat burn. Exercising a specific area = increased muscle mass. Super easy. Also, as a woman it’s nearly impossible to look like the Hulk. Women can, and should, strength train.

Always have a plan

Working out without a plan is appropriately titled “Fuckaroundits.” Having a plan ensures that you’re getting the most out of your workout. Work smart, not hard. If you’re a newbie to the gym, here’s a list of plans to help get you started.

4. Plateaus

Plateaus can happen for a number of reasons. Make sure you re-read the above advice if you’re in a plateau. Due to an increase/decrease in weight/muscle/etc. you may need to refigure your daily caloric needs. Additionally, if you’ve suddenly given up/taken up a new form of exercise your diet may need to be tailed appropriately.

Are you measuring your food so you’re not underestimating calories?

Are you tracking your heart rate so you’re not overestimating calories burned?

Are you sticking to your meal plans/portion sizes/etc?

Is your goal realistic (i.e. 5’4 and 56 pounds may not be a realistic goal)

Do you have fat to lose?

Have you tried upping your intensity/decreasing your calories?

If you’ve done all of the above then this is what you must do: see a doctor. Or a nutritionist. Bring your meal plan, exercise diary, etc. If you have these problems you need to see a professional, not a person on Tumblr. Also remember that you are only as accountable as you hold yourself to. Not counting your snacks, rounding up miles run/set complete, etc. only hurts yourself in the end.

5. Why lose weight?

This is a very important question to ask yourself. Why are you losing weight? Is it to get healthy? Is it because you’re genuinely concerned about your body? Is it so that you’ll get on a team/have a boy/girl like you, etc? Think of the following things…

1. Why am I losing weight?

2. Are my goals realistic?

3. Am I losing weight for myself, or am I losing weight for someone else?

4. If it’s for someone else, why? What makes them so important? Will they always be this important to you?

Make sure you fully understand WHY you want to lose weight. This way if you ever find yourself losing motivation or having a hard time you can focus on this. Remembering why you’re going down this path is just as important as remembering what the path is.

That’s it. That’s all you need for weight loss.

If you can’t spot reduce, why lift weights?

This edition of Workout Wednesday is brought to you by my sister. “But if there’s no such thing as spot reduction, why do you lift weights? Why do you have arm days and leg days and ab days and not just gym days?

The best way to explain this is to look at your body. Poke your stomach, your thighs, your calves. If you’re anything like me you have a lovely layer of protection over your stomach, thighs, butt, arms, etc. that keeps you warm and insulates your body and sometimes makes your clothes fit a little too tight. That’s fat. It’s important for survival, but sometimes we think it’s not very aesthetic. That’s fine, I understand. But dig deeper. Eventually you’ll hit something hard. Flex that area and try again. Feel that? That’s muscle.

Muscle covers bones (and sometimes peritoneum, but that’s besides the point) and fat covers muscle.

When people ask how to “Get rid of the fat on their stomach” they’re met with, “There’s no such thing as spot reducing!” That’s because to get rid of fat you have to burn fat. Fat does not magically become muscle. Fat is fat. It’s adipose tissue filled with fat cells. Muscle is an entirely different entity. With liposuction you suck out the fat and get rid of the cells. Otherwise you’re deflating them. Doing 1,000 crunches a day will not magically turn your fat into muscle. This is what people mean when they say, “There’s no such thing as spot reduction” because no matter how many crunches you do that fat will still be there.

So why lift weights? Because you’re building the muscle. Underneath that fat you have wonderful muscles that help you move and lift heavy things and function. People lift weight to get stronger, to make their muscles more prominent, or simply because they like to. But no matter how many squats you do or crunches or bicep curls the progress will be invisible to you unless you remove the layer of fat on top of it.

You can’t spot reduce fat, but you can spot increase strength. That’s a better way to put it, right?

Just remember this: fat is not muscle, muscle is not fat. By doing crunches you’re not turning that layer of fat INTO muscle. If you increase your heart rate into a cardiovascular zone that allows you to burn fat, then yes, you’re burning fat while doing crunches. But you’re burning fat all over your body. Think about where your heart is located – in your chest, right? If you increase your heart rate and you’re in the zone for fat loss, how does your heart know that you’re doing crunches? It doesn’t. It just knows it needs to beat faster to accommodate for the sudden increase in workload. That translates to removing energy from fat around your body based on genetics. Where you lose fat first is based almost entirely on genetics. Never fear, though, because eventually your body will have to go to that stubborn fat supply you’ve been lamenting over for a few months and get energy from there.

Then, after that fat has been reduced, you will be able to see those beautiful muscles you’ve worked so diligently for.